HELLO!
I'm Dalia
(She, Her, Ella)
I’m the founder of Sensate Canvas, where we explore human transformation through the body, through story, and through care. Sexual Canvas is the branch of this work devoted to the sacred terrain of sexuality. As a board-certified sexologist and guide in intimate connection, I support people of all genders and orientations in remembering their wholeness—through pleasure, through healing, through truth. I create spaces of belonging where desire is not judged, the body is not shamed, and every story is honored. Join me in this unfolding—a journey of sexual self-discovery, embodied power, and relational depth.
It can be daunting to navigate a new area, and there's a lot of pressure to have everything figured out. As a result, you may feel alone, disconnected, and uncomfortable. You may have a vision for your relationships but feel like you're stuck on the edge of discovery, unsure how to move forward.
But you don't have to go it alone. I'm here to provide support and guidance, helping you overcome any obstacles and achieve your goals. By working together, we can explore the world of sex and intimacy, and find ways to talk about it that feel comfortable and natural. Let's take this journey together and create a fulfilling, joyful sex life that lasts a lifetime.
Sexual Canvas
Our Intimacy wellness company is built on social innovation and four core principles: whole- person care, modern-day intimacy, evidence-based wisdom, and conscious sexuality.
It's a community that's dedicated to exploring the complexities of human sexuality. Our mission is to break down the stigmas and taboos that have traditionally surrounded this fundamental aspect of our lives and provide a platform for open and honest discussions.
Through a combination of scientific facts, real-life experiences, and engaging conversations, we paint a comprehensive and vibrant picture of human sexuality. We believe that by doing so, we can empower individuals to connect with their sexuality and create more fulfilling, joyful relationships.
What is coaching
- Coaching, including sex coaching, aims to empower the client.
- A sex coach provides assessment but not diagnosis.
- Sex coaching focuses on future outcomes and results based on the client's goals and desires.
- Positive reinforcement is used to support the client's dreams, wishes, goals, and desired outcomes.
- The sex coach acts as a guide to help the client overcome sexual blocks in thinking, feeling, and behavior without pathologizing the client or using a top-down hierarchical style.
- Sex coaching typically involves a short period, with some clients resolving their concerns in one or two sessions, while others may require several weeks or months if bodywork is involved.
- The client is an active collaborator in the journey toward their goals, and participation is emphasized over a passive or dependent relationship.
I created my methodology for sex coaching by integrating various techniques through my Intimacy Intentional Model ®. I provide sex coaching that explores desires, boundaries, and pleasure with the body as a guide. My approach is both theoretically informed and practically effective, as I have adapted and combined techniques from various schools of sex therapy, education, and counseling, including cognitive-behavioral, rational-emotive, behavioral, psychoanalytic, voice dialogue, Gestalt, intuitive, ego states, somatic, and sensate focus therapies, as well as mindfulness practices and other non-traditional methods like Tantra. By drawing from these diverse sources, I offer a comprehensive approach to sex coaching tailored to each client's unique needs. Together, we build a practice that helps clients notice, value, and communicate their desires and boundaries, so they can make empowered choices about their sex life. Even if sex is not their preference, I offer non-sexual intimacy coaching that helps clients find pleasure.
Our podcast provides a safe and inclusive space for people of all adult ages, genders, sexual orientations, and backgrounds to come together and learn from one another. We encourage you to grab your paintbrush and join us on this journey of self-discovery and growth. Together, we can celebrate the power of human sexuality and create a masterpiece that reflects the true diversity and beauty of our world.
As a sex and relationship consultant
Unlock Your Sexual Potential
Personalized Sex and Relationship Consulting
If you're looking to explore your sexuality and enhance your intimate relationships, I can help. As a sex and relationship consultant, I work with both traditional and nontraditional clients who are interested in discovering their true sexual selves. By using my proprietary Sexual Intentional Model, I guide my clients through a personalized process of self-discovery and help them create a roadmap for achieving a fulfilling and safe sex life.
From Spicing Things Up to Sexual Empowerment
Customized Solutions for Every Relationship
Whether you're looking to reignite the passion in your long-term relationship or discover your own sexual identity, I'm here to help you unlock your full potential. You deserve to experience the power and pleasure of living an authentic sex life that is true to your unique desires and boundaries. Let's work together to discover what truly satisfies you and make your sex life as exciting and fulfilling as possible.
- In todays word , individuals of all genders and sexual orientation have an unprecedented opportunity to pursue the love life that feels most authentic to them. However, navigating this path can be challenging, as there are many relationship alternatives to consider and social norms are constantly evolving, which can make it difficult to determine what is socially acceptable. Moreover, misinformation and lack of knowledge can cause confusion and complicate the decision-making process.
- Given that love and sex are not a one-size-fits-all solution, it can be challenging to figure out what's right for each individual, especially if their desires fall outside the box. This is where my sexual canvas courses and consulting practice comes in. Using scientifically sound principles, these resources can help individuals discern between noise and signal, answering questions and offering guidance to build a healthy, confident, and fulfilling love life.
As a course's creator I strive to provide the most up-to-date, accurate information to those who seek assistance. Furthermore, as a nonconformist myself, I ensure that I will never judge individuals for their desires. By seizing control of their love lives, individuals can build a future that they may not have thought possible..
Human psychology is not a dichotomy, but rather a spectrum where everything exists.
I firmly believe that incorporating mindfulness into our sexual experiences is essential. When we focus on being present in the moment, it heightens our physical sensations, strengthens our bond with our partner, and minimizes any distractions that may hinder our sexual pleasure.
Human sexuality is not black and white.
it is a spectrum of colors, shades, and nuances. By speaking honestly and compassionately with one another, we can appreciate the incredible diversity of our desires and experiences.
MEET
Dalia La Fontaine
A Board-Certified Sexologist and "Sex Nerd"
Dalia La Fontaine, also known as the "Sex Nerd," is a Diplomate of the American Board of Sexology, a consultant, and founder of Sexual Canvas and Ka Wellbeing. Dalia is dedicated to promoting healthy and fulfilling intimate experiences for all humans, and her work as a sexologist and educator has made her a respected authority on a wide range of topics related to human sexuality.
Education and Expertise
Dalia M. LaFontaine is a board-certified sexologist, trauma-informed educator, and visionary entrepreneur in relational wellness and human sexuality. She holds a Master of Science in Nonprofit Management, is completing a second master’s in Clinical Psychology, and is pursuing a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality. Dalia also holds a Certificate in Sex Therapy and advanced training from the Kinsey Institute. Her work bridges clinical insight, somatic intelligence, and mindfulness-based healing. She is a certified yoga teacher, certified mindfulness teacher, and licensed Positive Psychology Practitioner, with continued studies at Harvard and Stanford. She is an active member of APA Division 51: Men & Masculinities, AASECT, SSSS (JEDI Committee), and Share-Net International. Her current research explores gender violence and feminicidio, centering the voices and narratives of male perpetrators. Through education, embodiment, and cultural inquiry, she supports trauma recovery, gender accountability, and whole-person sexuality across communities and systems.
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Areas of Expertise
Dalia brings a comprehensive and interdisciplinary approach to sexuality, gender, and well-being. Her expertise includes sex and mindfulness, sexual shame, consent, miscommunication around intimacy, sexual abuse and harassment, diverse family dynamics, gender equality in professional environments, sex and psychedelics, human trafficking, gender-based violence, feminicidio, masculinity, positive psychology, clinical psychology, and the intersection of sex, technology, and artificial intelligence.
She integrates storytelling and art into her work as powerful tools for healing, education, and social transformation—helping individuals connect emotionally, reflect deeply, and foster empathy.
As a passionate advocate for sexual literacy, Dalia empowers individuals and communities through education, creativity, and action. She is also a sought-after national and international speaker, known for delivering compelling presentations that blend academic research, clinical insight, artistic expression, and emerging trends—including how technology and AI are reshaping human intimacy and connection.
Gender Violence and Feminicidio
Dalia is a leading voice in the fight against gender-based violence and feminicidio—an urgent human rights crisis affecting countless lives worldwide. Through her research and advocacy, she examines the deep-rooted social, cultural, legal, and institutional factors that sustain violence and impunity. Dalia’s work bridges academic insight and community engagement, combining academic rigor with real-world action. She offers education, resources, and strategic interventions to prevent violence, support survivors, and empower communities. Her mission is to inspire action, raise awareness, and drive systemic change toward a more just and safe society for all.
Join Dalia La Fontaine on her mission to break down taboos and promote sexual literacy for all. Her dedication to empowering individuals and promoting whole person care in all aspects of human sexuality makes her a valuable asset to the field of Sexology.
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